About Russ

Russ & Sharon Peterson started Growing Marriages in 2005 to provide information and resources for couples looking to build healthy, growing marriages. They are active in their local church marriage ministry and provide mentoring for couples interested in preparing for, enriching, or repairing their marriage. They have three adult children and six grandchildren and reside in sunny Colorado Springs, Colorado.

Creating a Legacy of Love

We took a month off for Summer break and enjoyed a bit of what Colorado has to offer. This month, we're starting a new topic that I'm sure many married couples can relate to—how to maintain a healthy, growing marriage relationship in the midst of raising a family. We will spend the next few posts on this topic. It [...]

By |2026-08-13T14:05:30-05:00July 1, 2025|Love & Relationships, Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

What’s Your Priority?

This month we continue looking at building and maintaining a healthy, connected marriage relationship when raising a family as we examine the topic of priorities. One of the most common enemies of marital harmony—especially when we are parents—is misaligned priorities. It’s so easy to spend so much time and energy raising our kids that we don’t even [...]

Healthy Communication

As we continue looking at building and maintaining a healthy, connected marriage relationship when raising a family, this month we look at developing and maintaining healthy communication with our spouse. You often hear people saying “having good communication is important in your marriage relationship”. But what does that mean exactly? After all, there are many aspects to [...]

By |2026-08-13T14:04:09-05:00May 1, 2025|Communication, Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Resolving Your Conflicts

Last month we talked about developing and maintaining healthy communication as you parent your kids. The skills you learn to communicate in respectful, honoring ways will come in handy when you need to resolve your conflicts. Healthy communication and conflict resolution are really two sides of the same coin. They work together to create a marriage of love, trust, [...]

Busting the Myths of a Christian Marriage

Most of us entered marriage holding onto certain beliefs about what a christian marriage is supposed to be. Whatever those beliefs are—good or bad—determines how we function as a couple. Some of those beliefs might be based on false teaching, input from friends or family, T.V. and movies, or even our own misinterpretation of scripture. If you've gone through our [...]

By |2026-08-13T14:02:26-05:00March 1, 2025|Real Life|0 Comments

Decoding The Language of Sex

It's that time of the year again. Whether we like it or not, Hallmark and a host of other stores turn our attention to the day when we celebrate and (try to) engage in romance. That's right, I'm talking about Valentine's Day. A day where women look forward to a romantic dinner by candlelight, intimate conversation, flowers and chocolate [...]

By |2026-08-30T01:31:12-05:00February 14, 2025|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Tips to spark the romance in your marriage

I was never one to get caught up in the whole "New Years Resolutions" thing. If I needed to change something, it didn't seem to make sense to wait until New Years to finally make a commitment. You just do it when its needed. However, sometimes we need that extra motivation to take the steps we know are necessary to [...]

By |2026-08-10T16:24:36-05:00January 1, 2025|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Fresh Starts & New Beginnings

Spring seems to be just around the corner. Last weekend, here in Colorado Springs we were in the '60s and the birds were singing their songs to announce that Winter's hold is coming to an end and the new birth of Spring is nearly upon us. Alas, in Colorado Springs that is only partly true. Here, we [...]

A Groundhog Day Marriage

In case you weren't aware, today is Groundhog Day. If you've ever seen the movie "Groundhog Day" starring Bill Murray, you know that he is a TV weather reporter covering the Groundhog Day festivities in Punxsutawney, PA. The problem is, every day he wakes up, he finds himself re-living the same day over and over again. Maybe you've felt [...]

By |2026-04-25T11:04:07-05:00February 1, 2023|Love & Relationships, Marriage Enrichment, Real Life|0 Comments

Working Together as a Team

Happy New Year! For many, the start of a new year holds the promise of fresh starts and new beginnings—a chance to hit the reset button, to get a do-over. Resolutions are sincerely made but seldom kept. Old patterns find their way back into our routines. The best of intentions get sidelined by the challenges and busyness of life. [...]

By |2026-04-25T11:06:07-05:00January 1, 2023|Marriage & Parenting|0 Comments
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