If you find yourself struggling in your marriage, don’t lose hope or give in to despair. There are things you can do to repair the hurts and heal the pain of your broken relationship. It will take some time, but you can rekindle the feelings of love and affection for your spouse. There’s nothing you can do to change your spouse, but there are things that you can do to change yourself. As you focus on yourself first becoming the wife or husband God intends you to be, pray for your spouse’s welfare as well. God wants your marriage to be healthy even more than you do, so you can pray with confidence. As you align your life and purpose with God first, your marriage can then come into alignment. The pain and hurt that occur in marriage can be devastating and lead to despair. If you can’t find success on your own, please seek help from a mentor couple or professional Christian counselor. We’ve also provided some resources you can use on your own—articles, books, and assessments—to help you repair and renew your marriage relationship. If you are feeling overwhelmed, reach out for help, and keep seeking God’s direction and wisdom.
